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February 14, 2011



paperwhite studio asks –

January 21, 2011

paperwhite studio asks- what is your measuring stick for love?

I love to share fun finds and paperwhite studio rocks! Most all of us have had those “don’t know what to get you” moments.
For those moments . . .



. . . and Etsy

January 11, 2011

http://www.etsy.com/shop/StinkyCouture / Etsy



HAPPY Mother’s Day!

May 9, 2010

HAPPY Mother’s Day!




April 10, 2010

We so enjoy our local Farmer’s Market though the season isn’t quite here and left me longing for a basketful of fresh vegetables on our visit today. Even so, we did find some beautiful flowers, I picked up a few super sized onions (for potato soup) and found a couple of new organic coffee blends.

LOVE zucchini, the recipe below is a family favorite. Enjoy!

* 2 organic eggs
* 2 cups organic sugar
* 1/2 cup organic canola oil
* 1 tablespoon Vanilla
* 3 cups of organic grated zucchini
* 1/2 teaspoon salt
* 1 1/2 teaspoon baking powder
* 1 teaspoon baking soda
* 1 tablespoon cinnamon
* 3 1/2 cups organic flour

Beat eggs until light and foamy then add sugar, oil, heaping cups of grated zucchini and vanilla. Mix lightly, but well. Combine flour, salt, soda, baking powder and cinnamon. Add to egg-zucchini mixture. Stir until well blended; pour into two loaf pans (9″x5″x3″) . Bake in preheated 350ºF oven for about 55 minutes or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean.

*We most often make small cakes using non Teflon cupcake pans. To prevent sticking we use non bleached coffee filters to wipe the pans with Earth Balance organic spread, followed by organic flour, shaking off the excess flour. When using cupcake pans we cook for about 25 minutes or or until a toothpick inserted near the center comes out clean. Cool on a non-Teflon wire rack and enjoy.

I really don’t actually measure much of the recipe as I add some of this and a little of that. Sometimes I’ll add a dash of organic pumpkin spice, sometimes a handfull of walnuts and/or raisins. Whatever suits my fancy at the moment. Yummy!




April 7, 2010

As women we can bond over things like parenting views, politics, religion and yes, even periods . . .

UbyKotex – Reality Check

A COMMERCIAL for U by Kotex, a new line from the 90-year-old feminine care brand, opens with an actress in her early 20s who says, “How do I feel about my period? I love it.”
-The New York Times



The following art project is a fun share and courtesy of

It seems to me that springtime crafts should be about nature, and pretty much anything BUT plastic. I experimented with covering plastic fillable Easter eggs with paper mache, and came up with this simple decoration.
1. I used the recipe that I posted about here, and covered a few plastic eggs with small bits of newspaper and mache. Several layers are best so that no plastic is peeking through. Let it dry completely. Note: This tested well even with kinders as their small hands could really squeeze the eggs to smooth the paper.
2. Brush the eggs with one main light acrylic color and let it dry. Then use a small amount of darker paint for texture. Brush it on so that the eggs look to have 50/50 covering and let dry.
3. Rub on some gold tempera paint by hand to give the eggs a little shine.
4. Use a natural looking, bumpy yarn and unroll it into a small round pile for the nest.
The result is a really nice centerpiece for any table!

We love the inspiration of APFK, however, we’ve changed it up some and choose to use water color paints and washable markers. A super project (supervision required) for smaller hands and though this project can create some fantastical artwork the true enjoyment is the quality time and well . . . making a mess!



A smear campaign is an intentional, premeditated effort to undermine an individual’s or group’s reputation, credibility, and character. .

The latter part of 2008 saw the fruition of a nasty smear campaign directed at Stinky Couture. Diligent, persistent and unfounded are just a few of the words that describe it. Why?! Friends, family and customers have kindly given their input and continued support.

Did I unintentionally step on toes, rock the boat with SC’s apparent quick success? If SC’s success rattled the self confidence of some others in the business, they have my sympathy for their own perceived shortcomings. Business is business, business is competition. Compete via quality of product and sound business practices.
Do I choose to not share every aspect of my life, intentionally keeping a safe distance between my personal life and my business? Yes.
Do I believe in keeping the buying and selling facets of business separate? Yes.
Do I prefer my nickname? Sure. So what?
And what of the numerous unashamedly copied SC concepts and designs? Don’t worry about people stealing your design work. Worry about the day they stop. -Jeffrey Zeldman
Did and do I expect to earn a fair wage for the time, quality and detail that goes into every Stinky Couture product? Absolutely!

The fact is that the online world of friends and contacts is a fickle one. Often one may be a friend one day and a target the next. As I see it people can be far too comfortable posting anything and everything on the internet. Some find that with anonymity, it’s easy to be malicious, unkind and make false accusations knowing that there will likely be no atonement or accounting for their words. I am passionate about everything and everyone in my life and though there came a time that I had to withdraw to reflect, to analyze, to breathe . . . the heart of the matter is this: our beautiful daughter is the face of Stinky Couture and I will not have the smear campaign be her legacy. I stand behind by my business integrity which is characterized by the honesty, reliability and fairness shown to each and every customer. As I’ve said before and what still holds true; the building of a business as a mother, wife and career woman requires investment, persistence and the sacrifice of precious time with loved ones. I could not make it through the trying times without the love and repeated support of those around me.

Recently I received an email from a fellow WAHM that prompted today’s blog post and though appreciated the words cannot undo the damage done. The following are excerpts from that email:

. . . I do need to apologize to you for being mean. I know I was. . . .

So Daphne. I am sorry for going to web and the drama blog – it was so out of character for me and honestly – I am ashamed I did – because its not like me. For that I apologize and take responsibility for my actions.

For me to post the email in it’s entirety is not an option. Those that have truly done business with me, know me. The truth has always been documented in writings and photos, though I’ve always felt that to make that information public would be unethical as protecting my brand could not come at the cost of disclosing my customers private business communications.

And now, goodbye to an elephant!

It’s important for me to share with you that in the midst of reeling from the smear campaign mentioned above, personally we tragically suffered more than one loss to our family. The road to healing continues to be a long one. More than ever I believe and embrace what is stated so simply:
LIVE well, LAUGH often, LOVE much.

A sincere and warm thank you to those of you that have continued to reach out, appreciate and support SC.



Merry Christmas!

December 25, 2009

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year!



Secret Santa

December 7, 2009

We love the holiday season and this last year Stinky Couture™ was excited to announce the adoption of a new tradition, our version of Secret Santa. Here we go again . . . Do you know someone that is kind, considerate, cares for others and is rich in all things that matter? Stinky Couture™ wants to be a Secret Santa for a special someone. With your help someone deserving will receive a beautifully gift wrapped Stinky Couture™ gift pack for their sweet baby this holiday season. Gift pack will include a Stinky Couture™ Signature Series™ fitted cloth diaper and a pack of yummilicious Stinky Couture™ baby wipes.

Please submit your nominee to CustomerService at StinkyCouture.com with “Secret Santa” in the subject line. Please do include your nominee’s full name, email address and a short description of why you feel that they are deserving. Submissions are being accepted through 12/21.

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